Reality TV personality and former Big Brother Naija winner, Josephine Ijeoma Otabor, better known as Phyna, recently shared her views on dating single fathers, revealing that she is reluctant to enter into such relationships.
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In a candid podcast interview, Phyna disclosed her reservations about dating men who are single fathers, citing concerns about the potential complications arising from dealing with the child’s mother.
She expressed her apprehension about the inherent challenges of navigating relationships with single fathers, emphasizing that she has witnessed firsthand the complexities that can arise in such situations.
Phyna admitted that while she might reconsider if the ex-wife or baby mama of the man is married to someone else, she remains hesitant due to the prospect of encountering what she described as “baby mama drama.”
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“I am not sure I can date a guy that has a child. I’ve met two guys who have children, these are my friends and I’ve seen the drama around it. I’ve seen situations where the baby mama will come and be like ‘who are you now leaving me for?” Phyna remarked during the interview.
She elaborated on the challenges faced by men with children, highlighting the potential for conflicts and disruptions caused by the involvement of the child’s mother in the man’s life.
“The stress is more than when a girl has a child, and it’s more chaotic with guys. Even if the men don’t like you, even if they don’t want to settle down with you, the baby mama just doesn’t want them to move on,” Phyna added, reflecting on her observations of such dynamics.
Phyna’s candid remarks shed light on the complexities of modern relationships and the various factors individuals consider when navigating the dating scene, particularly when children from previous relationships are involved.
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